Here's what you do... sit directly across from him, make eye contact, and play footsie with him under the table. if he retracts his foot from just being startled, put your foot on his crotch. just make sure you make it clear that you're the one in control. guys like that. if he seems like he's liking it too much, retract your foot and act like nothing happened. control. if he retracts his foot out of disinterest, smash his crotch with your foot. if he likes it, keep doing it, maybe give him a little wink. the rest should be up to him. if he doesn't make a move within 48 hours, he's a douche and you should forget him and go out with me.